Yesterday was a day of achievement for us, as a team. After months of hard work to identify the “right” livelihood activities to be promoted through the program and develop training modules and resources, we finally launched our first set of trainings in the supplemental income generating (SIG) activities- wage based, low skill jobs that provide nominal increases in income to the households to help meet their immediate consumption needs. We are focusing for now on two activities- kitchen gardening and agarbatti (incense stick) rolling. While both are existing activities in the panchaayat we work in, these women are either not engaged due to a lack of awareness or confidence in how to take up the activity or have been unable to access value addition in the form of skills enhancement to roll higher quality (and hence, higher priced) agarbatti or training in agriculture methods to grow vegetables more efficiently throughout the year. In the case of agarbatti, the activity involves direct contact with harmful substances that are breathed in by women and children alike. Food is often eaten without washing the substance off their hands, so incorporating health and hygiene practices into the training module is another value addition. An interesting fact I learned during my time here is that Bihar is the second largest producer of agarbatti in India! Many of us were raised with agarbatti (commonly referred to as oodhupaathi in Tamil) lit in our homes, sometimes each evening, but without doubt, on religious holidays and festivals. Each time I light an agarbatti stick, I will always think of these poor women from whose hands it originated. I hope you will too!
For the first time, they opened up and shared the initial reservations and reason for opposition from their husbands to partake in the program. Their husbands would desperately ask, “Do you even know who these people are? Do you know their background or their intentions? How do you know that they won’t actually sell you on the market?” To share such content, which in itself is considered too shameful to be discussed with strangers, and men at that, was another indicator of their newly cultivated trust. My heart became heavy when I learned that women from these very communities had been victims of human trafficking. In a society where honor and dignity are directly correlated with a certain notion of “purity/tarnishing” of the body, this so-called livelihood “option” (or coercion, in some instances) can tip the life-or-death scale weighed by narrow-minded local leaders and destroy the lives of so many.
Photo stream of our clients' children in Pali village: